Are you a person that MUST have control? Do you try to control all the situations in your life? Do you try to control the people in your life? How is that working for you and for your relationships? It is probably not working well, even if YOU think it is!
As Christians, we must learn to submit to the Lord and give up our tight grip on things! If we don’t freely submit to God, we will eventually find out that there are things that we cannot control and we need God to handle them. It is much better to let God be God and not try to be God ourselves. God does NOT need a replacement!