A friend of mine was having an issue with his well and was not getting any water.  I am a city girl so I don’t really know anything about wells but my friend did so he was able to fix it and get his water restored.  Apparently there are different things that can go wrong with a well and happily, his was just an issue with the control box and not a more serious issue. This situation made me think about what can cause the wells in our lives to stop working.  My friend’s issue had to do with something in the control box.  As Christians, we can stop the flow of living waters in our lives when we do not let God have total control.  If we are finding a lack of joy in our lives, it may be because we are not in right relationship with the Lord.  We should check the control box and see if we are letting God have control.

Another thing that can stop the water from coming forth is a blockage. Apparently, from what I hear, that is a serious problem and harder to fix.  Let’s consider some of the things that can stop the flow of the Lord in our lives.  They might be little things or they could be bigger issues.  Some of the main things that will block our relationship with the Lord are things like unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment, anger and hatred.  God showed me many years ago that these are five very common spirit-killers in peoples’ lives.

Let’s look at one of the biggies that block the flow, unforgiveness!  If you read the passage where Jesus taught the Disciples what we call the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:5-13,  forgiveness is part of that prayer.  Immediately following the prayer, in verses 14 and 15, Jesus continues to discuss the importance of forgiveness by saying:

14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

I have known so many people who have let unforgiveness rule over them.  They might try to justify it by saying that the other person hurt them deeply and they do not deserve to be forgiven.  The point is that Romans 3:23 says “for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.”  None of us deserve to be forgiven but even when we were sinners, Christ died for us so that we might be forgiven.  “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).  There was only one person who lived a sinless life and that was Jesus!  Jesus said it very clearly that if we don’t forgive, we will not be forgiven by God.  The choice is ours but we are on very dangerous ground if we allow unforgiveness to linger in our lives.

One of the other spirit-killers is bitterness.  Hebrews 12:15 warns “Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled.” We see in that verse that bitterness is a root.  If a root is nurtured, it will keep growing and growing.  I have seen elderly people who allowed a root of bitterness into their lives when they were young and it just kept growing until it consumed their lives.  Many are crippled up in their bodies as well as their spirits and souls.  It is very sad!

Resentment is also a spirit-killer.  Like bitterness, if allowed to stay, it will grow and make us very unhappy and cynical people.  We need to let go of resentment as soon as we recognize its’ presence in our lives.

Anger is also a big thing and if not dealt with quickly, it can destroy us as well as others.  I have seen people whose lives are consumed with anger because they never developed self-control in their lives.  If we have an anger problem, we need to ask the Lord to help us by replacing that with the fruit of the Spirit, temperance or self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

Hatred against a person or people is something that will also kill us spiritually. God compares hatred to murder. 1 John 3:15 says “Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.” Wow, what a statement!

Let me just pose a question to all of us that we all need to carefully consider.  Are any of the things I have mentioned worth holding unto in light of the consequences of doing so?

Patricia Styers




God Is Not Finished With Me Yet!

Today I am 64 years old. I have never been afraid to tell people my age because I am so blessed that the Lord has given me life and allowed me to live to see another birthday. I am so glad that God has a plan and I will never be too old to fit into His plan for me. God used many great men and women in the Bible and reading about them shows that God is not a respector of age.

Jeremiah 1: 4-10 says:

“Then the word of the LORD came unto me, saying,

Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.

Then said I, Ah, Lord GOD! behold, I cannot speak: for I am a child.

But the LORD said unto me, Say not, I am a child: for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee thou shalt speak.

Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the LORD.

Then the LORD put forth his hand, and touched my mouth. And the LORD said unto me, Behold, I have put my words in thy mouth.

See, I have this day set thee over the nations and over the kingdoms, to root out, and to pull down, and to destroy, and to throw down, to build, and to plant.”

Abraham was very old when God told him that he would be the Father of many nations. That seemed impossible at his ripe old age but nothing is impossible with God!

I have seen the Lord use very small children and I have seen God use the very elderly. God is NOT limited by our ages! No matter our ages, God can still bless us and use us! Our best days may be ahead of us so I look forward to whatever God plans to do in, with and through me.

Blessings to all of you!

Patricia Styers


Prophecy from the Lord on 11/26/16

God gave me this prophecy on 11/26/16 about 5 AM when I was praying and waiting quietly on Him. I pray that it will bless you as it has me. I am so glad that God still speaks to those who will spend time with Him and be still to hear His voice.  About a month after I heard the Lord speak this, Jennifer LeClaire (a prophetess) posted a video that the Lord had given her a word to “ride the wind.” I love it when God confirms His word! Here is the Word:

Thus says the Lord, greater anointing to take down greater barriers. There are new territories to be taken for Me. I will lead you and guide you where I want you to go and you shall be sent by Me. You will ride the wind of My Spirit and My wind shall uphold you. My wind cannot and will not be stopped because I will blow says the Lord. As I speak, kingdoms will fall and be established at My Word. Great shall be the establishment of My Kingdom in the earth. My people shall experience new power, greater anointing as they look to Me. I will reign says the Lord!
The wind of My Spirit will blow with great force because I desire to do a work in My people. The chaff must go so I will blow by My Spirit to blow away the chaff that is not useful. Those things of the flesh must go so I have a pure Bride that will shine forth in the earth. Submit to My wind and do not resist! I am doing a new and greater thing in My people and nothing has been seen in the earth like what I desire to do now. Ride the wind of My Spirit and do not resist! Go where I carry you! Don’t plant your feet and try to stay where you are because I have new places to take you in and by My Spirit. Trust Me and ride the wind of My Spirit.


via Daily Prompt: Lovingly

I am new to blogging and just signed up at wordpress.com this weekend. I have posted one blog so far. When I signed in this morning, I saw a daily prompt to post something about the word “lovingly” so I decided to take the challenge.

I think the word “lovingly” has to do with having an attitude and living in a way that expresses yourself in a loving way both in words and actions. If we all would maintain a loving attitude towards people that we come into contact with throughout our lives, this world would be a much better and kinder place and people would be blessed.

God lovingly showed me His grace, compassion, mercy, forgiveness and accepted me into His family and that is the greatest example I have ever seen in my life. So many people need to just hear a kind word of encouragement or see a smile in order to turn their whole day around. We, as Christians and God’s ambassador’s on this earth, need to learn to live lovingly towards God and other people. Just think of how many lonely, desperate and hurting people we might encounter each day as we go about our lives. We all need to be sensitive to the needs of others and be available to live in a way that shows them an example of love. You might never know how many lives you touch by just living lovingly towards others! Now, I issue a challenge to all of us to show that attitude to everyone we meet today. Will we take that challenge?

The Forgotten Aspect of Prayer

This is the post excerpt.


The Forgotten Aspect of Prayer
Patricia Styers
January 31, 2017

I was in a corporate prayer meeting last Thursday and God was speaking to me as I was sitting quietly. He began to speak to me about prayer. The Church (Christians) talk so much about prayer and many recognize the importance of prayer but many are missing one very essential part of what having a strong prayer life should mean to us. If I were to ask people what prayer means to them, some of the answers I would probably hear include “prayer is asking God to do things” or ‘prayer is asking God to bless my family and friends.” These things are definitely a part of prayer but unfortunately, many people think that is all there is to prayer. I want to draw your attention to something that should be a very huge part of our prayer life that is overlooked or neglected. In order for us to have a prayer life that is effective and one that brings about greater results, we must understand what should really be included in our prayer life.
When we talk to the Lord, we need to recognize that He is the greatest, most faithful and loving friend that we could ever have in our lives. It is true that He is the Supreme Being, the Maker of Heaven and earth and He deserves great respect from us but He is also the best friend we could ever hope to have and He wants a personal and intimate relationship with us. If you have a best friend, when you get together with that friend, a big part of the friendship is conversation. If you did all of the talking and your friend could never get a word in edgewise, your friend would begin to feel like you did not care enough to listen to their feelings and hear what they had to say. That is not a conversation but a monologue! Now, try to imagine what it would be like to be God. Day and night people are pleading with you to meet their requests but they don’t stop to be quiet and let you talk to them. God is Wisdom and He desires to speak into our lives and give to us wisdom, knowledge, understanding and revelation but are we listening? Do we take time to be quiet as a regular part of our prayer lives or do we just submit our requests to Him and then go about our business as usual. What message are we sending to the Lord? Lord, I just need you to do these things for me but I don’t really have time right now to be quiet and still to hear what you want to say. How sad! That is not a relationship with the Lord but it is using God as a sugar daddy in Heaven who is the one that we run to when we need something.
Many years ago, God showed me that most people are geared towards activity. Quietness can actually be uncomfortable to people who are so used to activity and noise. I have been in “churches” where people get very uncomfortable if there is quiet. You can hear feet shuffling or nervous coughing because they are not accustomed to being quiet. God, on the other hand, loves the quiet because it is an opportunity for Him to speak into our lives, if we are listening! I have some questions for all of us. When is the last time that you just got still and quiet and listened for the still small voice of God? Was it uncomfortable? Did you find your mind wandering? Were you able to truly quiet your mind enough to listen? Think about these questions and answer them honestly. If quietness and stillness was uncomfortable and you wrestled with it, you need to spend more time on it and learn how to appreciate the quietness and having that time as a regular part of your prayer life. Doesn’t God deserve our time? Don’t we need to hear from God? I know that I need to have a conversation with God instead of a monologue because I need His guidance in my life. There used to be a commercial for a company that said when they spoke everyone listened. Don’t we need to hear from God more than any person or company? I challenge all of us to start being quiet as a part of our prayer lives. Start with just a few minutes and as you learn to be still, increase the time. Pray that God will teach you to be still and really listen for Him to speak. You will be amazed at how God can and will change your life as you learn that He has awesome things to share with you that are life-changing! Try having a real relationship with Him and watch what happens!